You know the guy that has a fair number of friends interested in hooking him up because they feel he’s a good guy?
I have a friend that is that guy.
I think meeting people by virtue of mutual associates isn’t capable of establishing a bond as strong as one that would have been established had the meeting been purely circumstantial or intentional. This is because I think once at least one of the two persons being hooked up has a notion that their relationship is specifically destined for a romantic domicile, it becomes mighty difficult to establish some sort of balanced friendship (initially) which is very important for any relationship to thrive.
For a minute, let’s forget the wordiness of the last paragraph, what do you think of hook-ups, something some of my friends from school often refer to as through passes?
Lmao. Come give me thru pass na
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Sometimes, it’s not because you are perceived to be a good guy. Oftentimes, it’s because they think they found something you’ve been looking for or something she’s been looking for. So, I don’t think “through pass” is such a bad idea
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Sounds like a fair reason.
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For me, i don’t think its a good idea. I completely agree with your write up. I know i can’t prove this but i believe the percentage of success in through passes is less than 30%. And what is a “Good guy” self? sigh…………..
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Lol. From what I’ve gleaned over time, I guess it implies one whose inhibitions against “freestyling” are well under check.
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I am not so sure about hook ups too. It’s usually someone else picking for you.
Let the chemistry or whatever come by itself biko!
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Personally, I’d like to be shot by cupid when I’m not looking. But hey, u never know…. It might all be yet another miserably failed attempt at love or all that awkwardness could be the start of something beautiful. You just never know….
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Cupid’s arrow. 😀
I quite agree with you. There’s no perfect formula to these things.
One finds that love could come in ways one never expects. Sometimes.
Thanks for your comment. 😊
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