Not so sure about hook-ups

You know the guy that has a fair number of friends interested in hooking him up because they feel he’s a good guy?

I have a friend that is that guy.

I think meeting people by virtue of mutual associates isn’t capable of establishing a bond as strong as one that would have been established had the meeting been purely circumstantial or intentional. This is because I think once at least one of the two persons being hooked up has a notion that their relationship is specifically destined for a romantic domicile, it becomes mighty difficult to establish some sort of balanced friendship (initially) which is very important for any relationship to thrive.

For a minute, let’s forget the wordiness of the last paragraph, what do you think of hook-ups, something some of my friends from school often refer to as  through passes?